Helping you become the parent you want to be

Responsive, gentle parenting can be really hard work and sometimes you need a bit of extra support.

I offer breastfeeding consultations, sleep consultations (with no sleep training), and fussy baby consultations; 

designed to make you feel more confident, rested and help you meet your parenting goals.


Parenting should not be a struggle

Caring for your child is the biggest responsibility you will ever face. When you feel confused, tired or all out of ideas, it can also feel hard and exhausting.

When you book a consultation, we will create a plan to achieve your parenting goals and create a more enjoyable experience for both you and your child.


Benefits of a consultation

Feel more confident

Evidence based suggestions tailored to your family’s needs

Move forward

Know how to move forward with a plan which is gentle and responsive

Feel in control

You take the lead, moving at a pace that works for you and your family

White woman (Rebecca Scott-Pillai) smiling at the camera. She wears a green top.

Hi! I’m Rebecca

I’ve been a parent for over 10 years so I really do understand how hard it is! Breastfeeding problems, colic, sleepless nights, I’ve been there!

With over 20 years of experience working with families face to face in Northern Ireland, I’m confident I can help you too. I also work remotely with families around the world!


You weren't meant to parent alone

It takes a village to raise a child, but in our modern society most parents are struggling on their own. With so much confusing information on the internet, and conflicting advice from family and health care professionals, it can be hard to find that clarity you need to move forward.

Responsive, gentle parenting is hard work. It  involves meeting your child’s emotional and physical needs 24/7, and usually with very little support.

When you are feeling exhausted and experiencing worry and guilt, you might question what you are doing and how you are performing as a parent. Perhaps you are worried about your fussy baby, who seems to be in pain, and you’re not sure what you should try next. Maybe breastfeeding is really important to you, but it’s agony, or your baby isn’t gaining weight. Perhaps you are really sleep deprived, but don’t know how to change sleep without resorting to sleep training. 

When we have a consultation, we come up with a plan that contains lots of practical suggestions and skills to move forward. A consultation with me won’t reduce your child’s need for connection with you, but it will help make parenting easier! 

I understand that investing in a consultation can be a difficult decision, so if you do have any more questions, please email me or schedule a free 15 minute call.